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Monday, August 22, 2005

Suchitra

Saw the movie Black. How beautifully it has shown the teacher student relationship. Awesome. That reminds me of girl called Suchitra. She is a dumb and deaf girl. She was my mother's student. My mom is a teacher.

A tall and healthy girl, wearing a long skirt and a loose top stood in front of me. I just couldn't help noticing her heavy body. Actually, I was a little scared of her huge body. I also noticed that she walked like drunk person and her left hip was noticiably bigger than the right one.

"This is Suchitra.", said my mother. She was introducing me to her. Then I saw something which was so attractive, so magnetic. I saw her smiling. Wow. She smiled like a two year old. Her smile looked so pure, so innocent, so relaxing. Her face said it all that she has no worries, no botherations and is not concerned about the outside world. She was happy in her own shell. When my mother introduced me to her, like a very well mannered child, she brought her hand forward and shook hands with me. I was touched. She was so happy and so excited to see me. Honestly speaking, it wasn't the same with me. I was a little reluctant to talk to her, or maybe I didn't know how to do that. My mother noticed it. She didn't like it, and took her away.

My mother used to talk about her at home. She was a 17 year old girl then. None of the normal school would give her admission and would ask her parents to take her to some special school. They had tried that before, but Suchitra had not liked it there. She wanted to study with normal students, and finally they managed to convince the principal of the school, where my mother used to teach. She was admitted in Class I. My mother was her class teacher. She had never taught such special students before, but wanted to try. She was succeeding in the same. Suchitra was so happy with her new teacher that her parents approached my mother for private tutions as well. My mother was unwilling in the start, but later agreed.

Now, my mother started teaching her everyday, in school, as well as at home. "Kabbta, Kabbta", she used to call my mother (her name is Kavita). My mother did not know the sign language, and learnt it from Suchitra's mother. Initially she needed her mother's help to convey something, but later could do it herself. My mother used to explain things to her with the help of her fingers and her eyes. Suchitra knew a little bit of lip reading too.

Suchitra was a very good and obedient student. This is the reason why my mother liked teaching her. She loved studying, but was a very slow learner. My mother used to get irritated at times, but she didn't give up. She taught her subjects like Maths, Environmental Studies, English, and Art. I had seen her drawings. They were like any other student in class I.

Although, it took her two years to get promoted to class II, Suchitra, her parents, my mother, none of them lost hope. They knew she could do it. My mother taught her till she passed Class III, but could not continue after that. It was because we were shifting to a different city. She and her parents were very sad. They didn't want to lose such a good teacher, but couldn't help the situation.

Suchitra, later finished her studies till class V, but couldn't study after that. It was becoming very difficult for her. Then her parents put her in slow learners school, and she has now managed to pass Class X at the age of 25. Her studies included some special subjects like art.

My mother is happy with her accomplishment. Suchitra will always have a special place in her heart. She will always be special to her teacher, and am sure that this teacher will be special to Suchitra and her parents as well.

Hats off to Suchitra, her parents, and my mother....................

Posted by Nats :: Monday, August 22, 2005 :: 2 comments